Hi Kat,
Welcome to the forums. Sounds like you are having a bit of blogger burnout. My best advice is try not to do too much at once. These things simply take time. There are always people who have the results you want but chances are they started a long time ago
. Stick in there and pace yourself as hard as it sounds you have to pace yourself. Be sure to ask any questions you have as it ads to the resource and helps you find exactly what you need.
I think 2600 hits a day is pretty darn good for a new site. You have to understand that most sites on the web get little traffic it's all concentrated so I think you are well on your way!
Which blogs are you currently running and welcome to the forum!